No, I’ve never been called fat but I 100% know people have thought it. Maybe not even fat but just overweight. But listen up, I DO NOT CARE. I’m to the point in my life where, excuse if I’m being frank but, don’t give a fuck. I have a job that I love. I’m getting a good education. I have friends that I love. Family that I love and I take good care of myself. I work out and eat right. I take time for self-care. I’m doing all the right things. Weight is just a number. As long as I’m eating healthy and moving my body, I’m doing just what I need to be doing. So, go ahead, call me fat. In fact, I encourage it. I take that as a compliment.
It used to bother me that some boys would go for the skinnier girls. I would get insecure about it. You know what though? Some guy, one day, maybe not now, will love me for me and my cellulite and belly rolls. I’m confident enough in myself to know my worth and what I deserve. I hate to make this empowering post about boys but the harsh reality is that most girls let boys dictate their decisions and feelings. I’m thankful that I no longer feel this way.
So, think what you want. Go ahead and think I’m fat, I really do not care. I’m stable enough to know I have a very fortunate life and will not let my weight or what people think about me dictate my life.
And for all of you struggling with your body image or think that you’re fat, I’m here to tell you that you are a beautiful human being and deserve the world. Live your life with no regrets. Take care of your health but don’t focus on the number on the scale. Spread your love but make sure to take time for yourself. Live your BEST LIFE POSSIBLE!